Jadedisland

Mentality

The various moments in my life, along with advice, motivations and fashionable perspectives. 

 Cleric - Yukijoro

The focus of my writing style under the influence of my inner muse yukijoro is "mentality" and the overall reflection of the emotions that lie deep within. My hope is to process the life lived and the life I hold now. Of all my writing voices, this is the most true to the me now, I am still the woman who is healing from her winter. This facet has the most presence on my blog, as she is the one reflecting on my journey and experiences. 

You can catch this guide on my main blog sharing my wisdom, experiences, and reflections. 

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Working towards more fulfilling self-love and exploration is the goal of all my writing, and why I explore how I navigate my life. If you feel you need help building an emotive goal, you can now email or message me at your discretion. - E&HS: Setting Emotive Goals

A Note from Jade

These glimpses of my life like chapters of breathing memoir vary from topic to topic. Some are heavy, and some are light please keep in mind that these are moments from my life past, present, and dreams for the future. -Jade


Posts tagged Social Norms
Chapter 43: Small Reflection on Ended Friendships

Losing friends is just a part of the process. At least that’s what I’m told. There comes a time when boundaries are established that no longer can accept tolerance. The path you take requires leveled maturity, and in other cases, you just grow apart. In truth, when it comes to navigating life maintaining strong friendships has proven to be a challenge in my later adult years.

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Chapter 40: Deadly Treats Need Receipts

I’ll preface this by saying not everyone with allergies is going to have the same experience as mine. Not everyone with dietary issues is officially diagnosed by a medical professional. Allergies can occur anywhere in your lifetime and can be acquired or lost with age. I trust that you treat my words with a little openness, and understand that I am speaking from my personal experiences and struggles.

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Chapter 35: Loving a Cactus 5 ways

In general, there are five “Main types” of love languages. Each displayed in different ways. While some might feel their love language is certainly one of the five, there are people like me who mesh and meld and have an “in between” form of a love language. Now, I don’t want to confuse your Valentine plans just yet but let me start with the main five.

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Chapter 30: Speaking Loud

I am capable of courageous conversations. I can step outside of my anxiety, pride, and address a problem. I don’t regret initiating the conversation about my salary; it meant I valued myself and what I have to offer high. I need to remember that being the kawaii boss will have its up and downs and that speaking up or against something has its reward.

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Chapter 22: Fighting the Facebook Silence

I worry that in a market that caters so heavily to white silence, the tools so easily accessible yet only marketable for white people will continue to limit the content that circulates in the general public. While i slowly fade from Facebook as a tool to market my content and grow my brand, I don’t stop seeking others whose work is not heard of. Hitting a share button takes all of five seconds, if your wifi is capable it's easy to do. Yet so little people do so, adding to the silencing of creatives of color. 

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