Jadedisland
A Kawaii Memoir

Mentality

The various moments in my life, along with advice, motivations and fashionable perspectives. 

 Cleric - Yukijoro

Inspired by my academic pursuit and personal roots with psychology, mental health, and healing Yukijoro is the second facet I named. The myth of the fantasy creature/spirit and ice deity spoke to me when I read about, "the woman who died in winter". After experiencing and overcoming some of severe trials of my own, I often felt like I was trapped in ice, looking towards a positive and beautiful world. So the frozen healer holding a mirror is one of my perceptions of self. My stronger, but perhaps melancholic, muse helped me through loneliness and isolation by reshaping my writing voice and emotive style. The focus of my writing style under the influence of my inner muse yukijoro is "mentality" and the overall reflection of the emotions that lie deep within. My hope is to process the life lived and the life I hold now. Of all my writing voices, this is the most true to the me now, I am still the woman who is healing from her winter. This facet has the most presence on my blog, as she is the one reflecting on my journey and experiences. 

You can catch this guide on my main blog sharing my wisdom, experiences, and reflections. 

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Working towards more fulfilling self-love and exploration is the goal of all my writing, and why I explore how I navigate my life. If you feel you need help building an emotive goal, you can now email or message me at your discretion. - E&HS: Setting Emotive Goals


Posts tagged Empathy
Chapter 37: Friendship Soliloquy

If I wrote a monologue on the troubles of proclaiming toxicity and ghosting friends I would end it shouting “Communicate to me better than old R&B love songs.” When I reflect on friendships past, I think about what went wrong, and the solid unifying theme is COMMUNICATION.

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Chapter 32: Venting Evolution

Venting is odd in the sense it’s both a private moment and an open one. How we choose to respond and engage can be a difference positively or negatively. Consider how you vent and what you wish would happen when you did. I’ll be exploring this topic in the future more, but in general, this reflection on navigating Vent Spaces is the best starter back I can give you.

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Chapter 28: The Need to Give Up


Giving up is the feeling you begin to cherish when it feels like you're surrounded by walls and nothing is getting better

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Chapter 19: Hero with the Wrong Answer

We all are capable of coming to our own conclusions, but sometimes a little help is needed to get there.

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