A Kawaii Memoir


The various moments in my life, along with advice, motivations and fashionable perspectives. 

Empress & Her Spectacle: Stir Fried Babe

If it doesn’t heal today it'll heal tomorrow


There’s gets a point in time when you are beyond the limit of the limit and are just ready for the end of all the mess. The point in your life where you want to jump past this section of mess and get to success and security. If there was some hack, like white privilege that I could use I would be phenomenal. 

I had a moment this past week, where an old acquaintance decided to take a direct shot of hot mess to my inbox. Instead of working through the issues, and actually being receptive to a conversation they played true to character and dipped. It’s gotten to the point where the emotional energy I have is at zero. Can you imagine the sun just going out like a lightbulb? That’s my metaphor of social energy, and all around a love of people depleting. So how do I restart the sun in me? 

Some might just suggest a higher power, or perhaps a bottle of well-aged whiskey. Others journaling, or some splatter type of art. Point is, recharging, after all, the toxic and negative battering that occurs in socialization is important. As intricate as life is, various experiences weave together and get knotted within us. Untangling those experiences is important in our journey and in healing. In reference to a meme I saw perusing Facebook, humans are really anxious little walking cucumbers. So while I might be trying to live my best veggie tale life, I’m still met with obstacles and events that stir-fry me up. 

So, in the time of sunshine, pollen, and Dunkin’ Donuts Coolatta drinks living my best life means meeting sizzling oil and being as scrumptious as possible. Instagram, Facebook, and all things Jadedisland are moving forward and up. The time to beef is finished. Don’t have your life be a news cycle of old drama from a while ago, let things go. Let life move forward, be wary but forgiving. Trust me when I say, that having your energy go down or be wasted is taxing. Live the best life for you! Focus on your presence and your journey. Lingering drama is like stale food, it’s there but disgusting after awhile. 

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